Wednesday, April 29, 2009

"Life's too short"

Warning: Prepare for a rant
We keep getting these fliers from a company saying, "Life's too short to clean your own home."
For one thing, I don't appreciate a mailbox-full of junk mail. But the big problem with this sort of thinking is what they don't say: "Life's too short to clean your own home, but it's all right if you clean someone else's." Don't get me wrong - I understand that there is a lot of value to having some extra help around the house, and there is certainly nothing wrong with paying for that help. It's the mindset that's the trouble. The mindset that says, "I'm going to take the easiest route, regardless of the cost." It says, "I have better things to do with my time than care for my home and family."
Why is life too short to clean your own home? Because it's work? So what? Do the work together, as a family. Sing songs together as you sweep. Laugh together as you do the dishes. Train your children to do these chores, to be your helpers, to prepare for caring for their own homes one day.
I'm aware that my thoughts are not exactly popular, and I may have stepped on some toes. If so, I'm sorry, but I refuse to be told that life is too short to care for my blessings. As far as I can tell, life is too short to continually abdicate responsibility to "the professionals". No one else is going to treasure my treasures like I will, no matter how well they're paid.

3 comments:

Sarah said...

Agreed. :) (We get those mailers, as well, and they are definitely annoying)

Terri said...

I agree with you! To many parents rely on daycare and other resources to handle their responsibilty.I want to care for my own,besides I would only need to go over what was already done to make it acceptable to me. So I may as well do it myself!

bethyoung said...

I hear you sister, in more ways than one!